Dating guru. Myth or reality?

Many ask me to teach them about women. Here is why I don't.

Men regularly come to me asking me to be their dating guru. To teach them what to say to a woman so that they finally get a girlfriend.

I understand the request. A lonely guy is asking, and loneliness is no joke.

Behind the mask

If I help, you take my words with you on the date. You say my sentences, in my rhythm, with my courage. Your mask is in truth my mask.

So what's the problem?

Time…

Time is your greatest enemy. Are you ready to have my mask in front of you moment after moment? To always speak my words?

Because to women everything has to be said at exactly the right moment and in exactly the right way, in exactly the posture they expect.

If you stray from that, they sense that you are not the one you have shown yourself to be.

If you stray from the cool macho, then you only borrowed that personality, and your old self will not keep the girl…

But this is where the story gets exciting. :D Not for you, though. For me…

Consequence:

The girl didn't fall in love with you, but with the one who wrote the sentences.

This is not flattery, just plain cause and effect: the word belongs to its owner. Whoever gave the word is the one the woman will look for behind the words.

And she will find him, because she will question you until you tell her who helped. And you will shamefully confess your master's name.

How do I know? What do you think? :D

A woman senses it

From a few sentences a woman senses when a man is unsure, and she starts to manipulate him at once, so that the guy sets off to the slaughterhouse like a stray lamb.

The woman has sensed that there is a bigger plan in the background, and at a moment when you least expect it, when you are at your weakest and most vulnerable, she will ask you a question to which your answer will be one word:

"I failed."

And then the woman knows she has succeeded: you are hooked. It is only a matter of time before you confess everything to her, that you went to a dating guru.

That is why the dating guru method is a sure way to get caught. Not because the lines are bad. Because they are not yours. It could work in one way only: if you used my words day and night, without stopping. But then you are no longer you.

So what do we do?

Become a Spirit yourself.

This is not a title and not a trick. It means that you don't learn lines, you learn to see. Whoever sees needs no memorised sentence, because he knows what is going on in the other, and from that the word comes by itself. His own word.

And whoever speaks like that sweeps every woman off her feet. Not because he learned something, but because he knows who they are, and who he himself is.

This is where I can help, and this is the only way I take on "dating guru" jobs.

But I'll tell you in advance: it is hard work. Weeks, not one evening. And you have to start with your own thoughts, because as long as they are talking inside you, you cannot hear hers. That is what the Mind Reading series is about; start there.

But if you truly want to be happy with a girl, not for tonight but for long, then there is only1 solution.

Become the one you have to become.

Stanley Ipkiss (Stan Lipkiss)